Are we just too Broken

I wonder some days if the world of a multiple is just too hard to work with. Yes we have amazing coping skills and once we get to know our system things can be much easier. But how do we get relationships to work when relating to others is the main area of our pain. How do he hold down a long term relationship with so many people inside. Is it even possible, and if not why do we miss out again. Its a mine field. Part of our pain is that we don't want to be alone and forgotten. It makes us feel invisible again and like we have no value. Yet we honestly wonder if we can find a way to be ourselves with someone and keep them as friends. I just don't know. Some days it feels like we are just to broken.