Over sensitive

We are in Queensland for a business conference. I spent yesterday afternoon at one of the meetings to sit in on some of the information. There were so many people there and the seating was so close together. Fortunately I was sitting between two people I knew which made it a bit better, but after and hour and a half of the meeting I had had enough of all the people around me and headed outside for the foyer to get some space. We then had a cramped taxi ride back to the hotel. By that stage I had had enough of other people. Hubby and I decided to have a quiet dinner and then stroll around some beach front markets not far from here. It was a nice night, but I felt quite over loaded and am enjoying a day to my self at the hotel, away from others, just vegging.
At home I never really think too much about how others live their lives except for perhaps close friends or family. But here I see so many other people into so much stuff and the constant crowds and I realize how uncomfortable I am with it all. I need my time away from it all, alone with my alters, where I have time to think, talk to them and where no on is touching me. Physical touch is a difficult thing, it is not something I am often comfortable with, even from people I know. After spending time with all those people talking and being close to me, I feel very overloaded, and oversensitive to all that is around me. I need time alone in a quiet space to get away from it all.
As I sit on the balcony of the hotel and watch the people below and see what they are doing and think of the others in the meeting, I realize how I am quite different to others. At home I am so busy with the running of the house and getting my work done, that I don't really think that much about it. My world at home involves interacting regularly with others like me. To me, having DID is normal, and I feel, well not comfortable with it, but not uncomfortable. I fit in there.
Here, I don't have work to do, yet it is still so easy to feel over loaded. I guess I feel more fragile, more broken here, not like everyone else. I see what my mind can't cope with. I watch all the others at the meeting and what they are achieving and I want to be there myself. I want to be able to run a business, and achieve and do all the things even my husband is doing, but my mind just wont let me. We just don't yet work together well enough to be able to handle the different situations and stresses needed to achieve what I want. It is frustrating and I find myself again getting angry at those who caused the trauma in my life.

Hi everyone, I know I haven't been posting regularly, things have been a
bit hectic at home. One of our boys has got himself into a bit of trouble. He is at his dads at the moment so it is giving me some time to relax a bit.
Hubby and I are in Queensland, Australia, at the moment for a business conference. He is going to the conference and I am enjoying having the time to hang out by the pool and relax without any house work or boy stress. So far it is day one and I like it.
 This is the view from our balcony. Not bad hey!
I have noticed I have not been coping well with all the stress at home. I have been living with constant headaches, some to the point where I have started to lose sight in one of my eyes. This has not helped with my alters either. I have had to spend so much time dealing with my external world, I have not been able to deal with or listen to what is happening on the inside. This has lead to some very unhappy Alters. They have started to get quite angry and talk to me in ways I have not heard for over a year. It is very frustrating both worlds need me and both are important but generally the external one will win when it comes to my boys. Especially at the moment. I am hoping some time away from the situation will help me to get closer to everyone one the inside.
We left home early this morning to catch our plane. Because of all the disruption inside, I only had 2 1/2 hours sleep, so it has been a long day. I have hope been working very hard lately one getting my sleeping routine strong and because of that I have, up until last night, been sleeping very well. With big change comes internal confusion and struggle. Last night there were several Alters who did not want to go away today, others who wanted to just stay awake until we left, out of pure excitement. Once we arrived, there was a bit of switching and changing but things seem to have settled down a bit now.
Going somewhere we have never been before is always a challenge and can be quite scary. This will often cause the Alters to switch around a bit until we find who is comfortable or can cope best with the new situation. It can take a bit of time to adjust and get settled in a new environment. So far so good. I depend very heavily on my husband as someone stable and familiar, it is very comforting to know he is with me.
I am looking forward to a good sleep tonight and hopefully a chance to kick back and relax over the next few days. I hope to keep you all posted, and hopefully everyone inside will enjoy the break too.

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